Wo kehti hai suno jaana,
Mohabbat moum ka ghar hai,
Tapish-e-bud-gumani ki,
Kahin pighla na de is ko?
Main kehta hoon,
Jis dil main zara bhi bad-gumani ho,
Wahan kuch aur ho to ho,
Mohabbat ho nahi sakti,
Wo kehti hai sada aise he,
Kia tum mujh ko chaho ge?
K main is main kami koi bhi,
Gawara ker nahi sakti,
Main kehta hoon,
Mohabbat kia hai ye tum ne sikhaya hai,
Mujhe tum se mohabbat k siwa,
Kuch b nahi aata,
Wo kehti hai,
Judai se bohat darta hai mera dil,
K khud ko tum se hat ker dekhna,
Mumkin nahi hai ab,
Main kehta hoon,
Yahi khadshe bohat mujh ko satate hain,
Magar sach hai mohabbat main,
Judai saath chalti hai,
Wo kehti hai,
Batao kia mere bin jee sako ge tum?
Meri baaten, meri yaaden, meri aankhen,
Bhula do ge?
Main kehta hoon,
Kabhi aisi baat per socha nahi main ne,
Ager ek pal ko bhi sochon to,
Saansen rukne lagti hain,
Wo kehti hai tumhen mujh se,
Mohabbat is qader kyon hai?
K main ek aam si larrki,
Tumhen kyon khaas lagti hon?
Main kehta hoon,
Kabhi khud ko meri aankhon se tum dekho,
Meri dewaangi kyon hai,
Ye khud he jaan jao gi,
Wo kehti hai,
Mujhe waraftgi se dekhte kyon ho?
K main khud ko bohat,
Qeemti mahsoos kerti hoon,
Main kehta hon,
Mata-e-jaan bohat anmol hoti hai,
Tumhen jub dekhta hoon zindgi,
Mahsoos kerta hoon,
Wo kehti hai,
Mujhe alfaz k jugno nahi milte,
K tumhen bata sakon,
K dil main mere kitni mohabbat hai,
Main kehta hoon,
Mohabbat to nigahon se jhalakti hai,
Tumhari khamoshi mujh se,
Tumhari baat kerti hai,
Wo kehti hai,
Batao na kiss ko khone se darta ho?
Batao kon hai wo jise,
Ye mousam bulate hain?
Main kehta hoon,
Yeh meri shayeri hai aaina dil ka,
Zara dekho batao kia,
Tumhen is main nazar aaya?
Wo kehti hai,
Atif jee bohat baaten banate ho,
Magar sach hai ye baaten,
Bohat he shaad rakhti hain,
Main kehta hoon,
Yeh sub baaten ye fasane ek bhana hain,
K pal kuch zindagani k,
Tumhare saath kat jayen,
Phir us k baad khamoshi ka,
Dilkash raqs hota hai,
Nigahen bolti hain aur,
Lub khamosh rehte hain…!!!

EK din jo mai

EK din jo mai
pukar betha apne rab ko ...

ke...
kyu tu meri dua sunta nhi....

kya ?
tujh tak meri awaz , meri tarp pohanchti nhi...

suna ke yeah ...
kehne lga ..mera khuda ...
aa mere nadan bande...
nhi gafil mai kisi cheez se....

janta hoo..
k mangta hai to Dua mai kisi ko mjhe se...

manta hoo ..
rakhta hai tu shidet apne piyar mai ..

prr dai skta nhi...
tjhe teri khawahish... teri arzooo ...

kyu k ..
is ghor kali duniya mai ..
kehi ..hai koi or bhi..
jo apni kali lambii ratooo mai ...
tjhe mujhe se mang rhi hai ..

or us ki..
tarap main ... mubhat mai ... tujh se ziyada shidat hai............... saurabh

Success in Life

I have had people ask me if some people are just born to succeed and other not. I think it's a great question because some people do seem like everything they do always turns out to be successful. However, I don't think that certain people were born to succeed. I do believe that these people that seem to always succeed have learned and implemented the keys to succeed much faster than other people.

You see, there are laws to success. It may not seem that way but it's true. If you were able to go behind the scenes of these successful people you would be able to find that they all of some very important things in common. They all have learned the secrets of success and use them. And I emphasize the words 'use them'.

One of the biggest reasons why I see people fail to succeed is because they are not using the success principles that they know to use. For instance, one of the keys to success is consistency and yet most people are not consistent in their life. So you have to ask yourself, are you actively using the keys of success that you know?

At the end of the day it doesn't really matter how much knowledge you have about success if you don't use it. There are loads of people out there that have business degrees that have taught them a lot about business and they still are not successful. And yet, some of the most successful people in the world today never even graduated college, some didn't even graduate high school. If you want to be successful, just implement the laws of success in your everyday life.



by- saurabh singh

Right or Wrong: How Do You Decide?

Who decides what is right and what is wrong?   The king, government, religion, tradition, culture, society, the family, the individual? Did Lincoln, Gandhi, Mother Theresa et al, need to ask the government, local society or anyone else what was wrong and what was right? No, they had the moxie to do what they believed was right, and the rest followed.
    
The challenge we all face is that nothing in life is clearly right or clearly wrong. Obeying rules doesn’t always help: wrongdoers sometimes succeed and right-doers suffer. Conformity doesn’t necessarily make it right either; often we end up doing the wrong thing to satisfy others. 

Of course, we need to obey laws, rules, and regulations. They are there for the common good and, to a great extent, to help us stay out of trouble!  That doesn’t mean we need to follow every unwritten rule, tradition, faith, belief or what is always acceptable to society, family and friends.  A certain amount of nonconformity is good ~ only when it has value to all.  

Nonconforming or risk-taking behavior is part of life. The amount of calculated risk you are willing to take helps you decide what is right and wrong.  Mostly the fear of doing the “wrong” thing prevents us from doing a lot of “right” things. That fear or inhibition, generally, comes from concern about what others are going to think. 

But, if one asks does my action help others ~ my family or society as a whole and you are convinced it is the right thing to do, then you are most likely going to make the right decision.  

Decision-making is a big part of leadership. Do leaders make right decisions all the time? Of course not. But they are willing to make them based on the best of their experience, ability, knowledge and available information. What also separates leaders from followers is that leaders are willing to take a chance and face the consequences. 

While personal satisfaction matters, those who make decisions strictly to enrich themselves will end up making wrong decisions. 

The most important thing to remember is that there is no such thing as perfect. The key is to always ask, will your family or someone else or society as a whole benefit when you make this decision
                                                                                                                                                         saurabh singh

So what life choice will you make?

So how can you open to choosing differently?

 
1. Be clear about what you want. Have a sense of purpose. With a target to aim for, you'll know what will serve you best.
2. STOP and ASK yourself questions. "Why am I doing this? What do I want to achieve?" WRITE down your answers. Be more conscious of how you are spending your precious time, because this is your life passing by. This will help you say, "Wait! I don't want to do this anymore!"
3. Never allow yourself to play the victim. Victims have given away their power. You alone are responsible for your life. When you fully accept this, you will claim your inner power to make better choices. Change often comes from nothing more than a shift in perspective.
4. Be open to possibilities for yourself. Select one area of your life where you are unsatisfied, and choose something new, something more for yourself. Do different things and do things differently. Risk more..

Empowerment arises from the three Cs: choice, courage and change. They are yours to claim. You'll be astounded at how easy it will be to take charge once you've made up your mind to do so. You have the opportunity to create a future that's very different from your past. And remember: not choosing is also a choice.  







                                                            "It is always your next move." -- saurabh singh

Reasons You Should Be Proud of Yourself

If you are reading this article, you are a person who is interested in making more of yourself. You want to develop your ability and expand yourself to the greatest extent you can be. If that is who you are, you may want to be fulfilled along the way of your journey. You may want to enjoy the process no matter how tough the situation is. This may not happen unless you feel good on yourself. In this article, we are going to talk about the reasons that you should be proud of yourself so that you appreciate how valuable you are in your personal development process. The four reasons include:

1. You are the most unique person in this world. Do you know who is the only person in this world that can use the pronoun "I" and it refers to you? Only you can be the one who are close to you and understand what you have been through so well. Some time you may not get why you did that and those, but when you look close to it, you understand them all. Subjectively, you are the most important person in your entire life not your family, not your parents, not your spouse, not your children, not your boss and not your friends. You need to understand this before you go into any personal development steps since it is crucial to feel good on yourself before succeeding in doing anything.

2. You were sent here with some purpose. Every single one of us was born with some purpose. We can not say that our creator just made us in order to flow with the tide and be whatever we will be under the circumstance. Of course not! We all have a mission of our own although some may not know what it is. It is our task to find out and finally accomplish what we are meant to do. Seek and you will find, according to the bible. You must be certain on this statement that you are here with the purpose and you will get that and make it through. Once you understand your mission, your life will never be the same again and you will be proud of yourself more than anything in this world.

3. You have determination to succeed in your own way. Once you understand that you have a mission. You want to be successful in what you do. Everybody wants success and it can happen. Everybody have determination but you have the most determination according to your point of view. You may say "I have not achieved much so far, how I can say I am a determined person." You are if you still read this message. Everybody already owns the determination and he can use them whenever he wants to. This is the secret. You have enough determination in yourself to do all the possibilities. Don't forget this and make full use of it.

4. You love yourself. This is crucial feeling for you to have for yourself. Not many people accept this since they refer the love of oneself to selfishness. This is a total difference. You are selfish when you do thing for yourself at the cost of damaging others. The love of yourself will not harm others but it will give you the understanding of others that they too love themselves. You are here today because you shape yourself into this and you should cherish what you are having. You may not be aware but inside you do deeply love in yourself and want to achieve more to be a gift to the love you have. Every time you see the mirror, you see the most lovable face in the world and you should do anything to keep this feeling. To admit that you love yourself will definitely change your attitude towards life and everything involves.

To be successful is to understand the success process. And one of them is to feel good along the way of your journey. To be proud of your good self is the ingredient to add juice into your life and success strategy.                                                    

                                                                                                               saurabh

ae meray hamsafar tum kahan kho gaye ho
bhatakta hon jis pe usi raah to gaye ho
dil ki maani nahin koi baat men ne
wo dharka bohat k juda ho gaye ho
kisi ki aankhon se neenden chura ker
yun chupkey se jaa k kahan so gaye ho
hamaarey hi dil ka qatal bhi kiya
aor hamaarey liye hi saza ho gaye ho
ghairon se ab gila kiyon karen
k tum bhi to hum se khafa ho gaye ho
garajti kahin aor barasti kahin he
saawan ki aisi ghata ho gaye ho
bari hi lambi musaafat thi baaqi 
no koi farz thay jo ada ho gaye ho
apni yaadon ko mera pata day gaye
khud meri yaad se maawara ho gaye ho
sehal raasitay per meray saath thay tum
ab jo rasta kathan hey juda ho gaye ho
khud apney lahoo se aabiyaari bhi ki
men samjha k fasl-e-wafa bo gaye ho
kiyon kisi ka gila ker rahey ho wasim
log samjhen gay tum bewafa ho gaye ho

                                              by- saurabh